Datevitation Review, Coupon Code, and Giveaway!
A while back, I had the opportunity to get a free Datevitation for the holidays. I put one together for Jeremy, as an early Christmas gift, and I am so pleased with the entire process.
Datevitation is a cute love coupon book. It allows you to put together a sort of coupon book for friends, family, children, or a significant other. There are over 500 date options, but you can also edit the text on any of them to make custom date ideas. Dates range from Adrenaline (including skydiving, paint balling, and off-roading) to Pampering (like foot massages and a mani-pedi).
Read more to see how my experience was with Datevitation and to see photos of my completed coupon book!
Also, check out the read more for a coupon code for the holidays and for a giveaway of a free book!
"That’s so OCD."
This comment, often traded among high school girls, usually regards someone’s organizational skills: properly spaced tab dividers, arrays of multicolored pens, or an especially neat locker.
If I google “celebrities with OCD,” I discover that I share my disorder with Cameron Diaz, Howard Stern, and Jesse Eisenberg. These interviews mention little more than minor compulsions. (Cameron Diaz is rumored to open doorknobs with her elbows; Howard Stern taps his car radio dial for a certain length of time before switching it on.)
Compulsive tics steal most of the limelight when it comes to Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. Comparatively less attention, meanwhile, is given to the obsessive thoughts that characterize the other half of OCD. The content of these obsessions can range from pedophilia to homicide to sexual identity crises; compulsions “atoning for” the thoughts sometimes follow. For example: A woman, distraught by visions of murdering her child, wakes up several times in the night to check on her daughter.
In discussions about OCD with family and friends, I’ve observed that it is easier for others to adjust to compulsions they can see rather than obsessions they can’t. It is easier for them to understand repetitive hand-washing than, say, the fear of murdering your parents. Abstract pamphlet language—”recurrent and persistent thoughts, impulses or images”—doesn’t necessarily register in a nonsufferer’s mind as graphic or violent.
There is a growing awareness of squats as an important if not the most important strength training exercise for the lower body. As a personal trainer it’s hard to argue with this fact. But now a number of 30 programs and challenges are circulating around tumblr and the internet for squats. This is one of a number of squat challenges I’ve seen.
The goal of these images usually is centered around the goal of getting a really nice butt like the one in the picture. While I’m sure it’s quite an accomplishment to complete this program. It’s not really training you in the most efficient way or for the right goal.
The volume of squats is way off. Most of these don’t specify if you should do all of these squats in a row, or if they are to be broken up over a whole day or into sets. Who knows what you should do with the 50-250 squats you are stuck with. Lets assume you are supposed to do them all in one sitting. This type of training would actually be preparing your muscles to have improved endurance. Which isn’t a problem except we are trying to get a nice butt! When people get nice butts they get it though muscle hypertrophy (simply put your muscles growing in size). High repetition exercise does not cause hypertrophy. Scientific research has shown that the optimal repetition range is around 8-12 reps per set. So you really should be doing sets of 8-12 squats to be creating that butt you so dearly want.
So cool you say, I’ll just break my 50-250 squats in to sets of 8-12 and I’ll be good! Not exactly, research has also shown that there is a diminishing return on muscular gains after about 3-4 sets of a certain exercise. Meaning that if you do 10 sets of squats you aren’t likely to see better results than if you simply did 3-4 sets of it.
Your ideal squat program should look something more like this. 3-4 sets of 8-12 reps.
The amount of consecutive days that you squat is way too high. For your muscles to grow they need to be put under stress and then be allowed to recover from that stress and grow. The majority of these programs stack at least 3 days in a row of squats together. The problem with this is that your leg muscles aren’t being given time to recover. Muscles need at least 24 hours to recover after a strength training workout. I honestly recommend people take at least 48 hours between working the same muscle group. When you don’t give your body time to recover you are simply stressing the same muscle group again the next day and delaying or undoing the work you did the day before. By the time you get to a rest day you most likely only get the results of about one days work.
A proper squat program should look more like Squat one day, rest one day, squat one day, rest one day or Squat one day, rest two days, squat one day, rest two days.
There is no indication to add or increase weight. When you start a squat program you might just need to start with body weight only. For a few workouts this might be enough. But over time squats will get easier to the point that it’s not much of a challenge anymore. Think about it, if you can do 250 squats in a row with your body weight, it’s gotten pretty easy. The key is for your muscles to hypertrophy they need to continue to be challenged. This is why you need to start adding weight to keep your squats challenging. I’m not telling you that you need to go into the gym and get in the squat rack and start lifting. If you are progressing from body weight squats you can add weight in a lot of ways. Hold two dumbbells at your sides, Hold something heavy close to your body like a jug of water, wear a backpack weighted down with something heavy like some books. It doesn’t matter if its real weights or something you have around the house, you need to start adding weights when your squats become easy of you will never get any better.
I hope you guys have learned a few things from this post. Unfortunately not everything on the internet is correct when it comes to exercising. But if you are educated and know how your body works and how training works you can better weed out the incorrect information from the good information.
then I better see you talk about how medical problems like depression, acid reflux, fibromyalgia, migraines and pneumonia will also negate a person’s beauty.
Because that supermodel over there? Whoops, she’s currently taking medication for constipation. I guess she’s not beautiful anymore. Your girlfriend just got the flu? Oh man, sorry, but now you’re dating a total uggo. Got a friend going through chemo? Well damn, they’re pretty unhealthy right now, I guess you wouldn’t dare to call them beautiful. By telling these people that they’re beautiful and by letting them have high self-esteem, you’re just glorifying these health problems!!!1!
Recognize that when you set “good health” as a requirement for beauty, it has more far reaching consequences then just shaming fat people. While you may think that you’re simply showing concern for people’s (supposedly) poor decisions in life, you’re instead creating a system where no one is actually good enough to love themselves or be proud of their body. It’s an impossible standard that even the most stereotypically beautiful and fit people can’t reach.
You don’t need to be healthy in order to appreciate your body and have worth. You don’t need to conform to anyone else’s expectations regarding health or beauty. It’s okay.
Yoga for Runners!!
I have been getting a couple of asks about the kind of stretches for runners, so I have decided to do a yoga guide on this <: this is a great way to cool down and stretch out your leg muscles and hips after a good run!
1. Passive Standing Forward Bend
Holding on to opposite elbows and with your feet shoulder distance apart, slowly drape your torso over your legs. Slowly sway from side to side, opening up your hamstrings and calves. As you exhale, slowly deepen your stretch.
2. Wide-Legged Standing Forward Bend
Widening your stance, deepen your stretch by using your peace fingers to grab on to your big toes. As you exhale, pull your torso towards your legs, feeling a nice stretch at the back of your legs.
3 & 4. Low Lunge & Lizard Pose
These are poses that help you stretch your hip flexors. For lizard pose, use a yoga block if it gets a little too intense for you. You do not have to get down on to your forearms. You can be on your palms if that feels good for you.
5 & 6. Pigeon Pose & Mermaid Pose
Both are passive hip openers, so feel free to stay in your pigeon pose for as long as it feels good. You can also go into resting pigeon pose, with your torso draped over your front leg, resting on your forehead.
If your hips feel open and good, come into a mermaid pose to stretch your sides and deepen the stretching of your hips.
7, 8, and 9. Downward Dog & Three Legged Dog Variations
Downward dog is a great pose to stretch out your calves. As you come into your downward dog, try to melt your chest towards the ground, and make sure your arm pits are pointing towards the ground and not flayed outwards. Reach your back heel towards the ground, and you’ll feel a nice stretch on your calves.
To deepen your stretch, come into the three legged dog. Feel free to open your hips in your three legged dog. This not only stretches your calves but also opens up your hips.
10. Seated Forward Fold
End off with a seated forward fold. Try not to round your back too much by shifting your gaze to your shins or toes rather than your knees. As you inhale, straighten your back. As you exhale, melt your torso towards your legs.
Feel free to come into a child’s pose or savasana to end off your stretches if that feels good <:
This is a great cooldown routine after a good run! <: Have fun! Namaste <3